The Female Student Discovering the Thrill of Ex Sex

This week's Sex Diary features "The Female Student Discovering the Thrill of Ex Sex." Ah, sex...as always, if you are or know a New Yorker who'd have good sex stories to anonymously share (and get paid), have them email sexdiaries at nymag.com with their info.

"Are You (Sexually) Experienced?" - new column up

I mention Cindy Gallop’s TED Books e-book Make Love Not Porn (which despite the title is not anti-porn, see link below), Thought Catalog’s Sleeping With a Slut" essay and "beginner’s mind" in this column, "Are You (Sexually) Experienced?" Considering that I run into exes or ex-flings all over the place, it’s a timely topic. Love that a friend said: “forewarned is forearmed” re: running into exes. Indeed!

"Ex Sex (Toys)" - my latest column

My latest Secrets of a Sex Writer column at SexIs Magazine is about what to do with sex toys you've used (or planned to use) with a partner. Maybe I'm too sentimental, but it's a dilemma for me (then again, some of them get lost in the madness that is my home). And if you want to catch up on the archives, click here.