Sex Diary: To schedule Sex Dates or Not?

This week's sex diary at Daily Intel, "The Personal Assistant Deciding Whether to Schedule Sex Dates," is about a couple trying to have more sex - whether they succeed or not you will have to read the diary. (I edit these, fyi, which is why I post them every week. Sometimes people ask if I've written them and I'm like, "I'd have a totally different life if I wrote some of these.")

It made me think about the fact that I've never scheduled sex, but I do think, especially in New York, finding the time for dates, with or without sex, even when you want to see the person you're seeing, is hard. I have trouble with overscheduling and would daresay another vice, of a sort, is filling my calendar with things to do. A friend introduced me to a new cafe in my neighborhood and is basically planting himself there to finish his book and I'm gonna try to work off that energy. Anyway, sex scheduling...read more about it in the diary. I think maybe it's something easy to mock but if it works for people, why not?

Sex Diary: "The Married Woman Breaking Her No-PDA Rule"

I'm the editor of the Sex Diaries at nymag.com and this week's is The Married Woman Breaking Her No-PDA Rule." Enjoy! And if you're a New Yorker interested in writing one, email me at sexdiaries at nymag.com - thanks!

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Sex Diary: "The 'Mostly Straight' Woman Jumping From One Male Lover's Bed to Another"

This week's sex diary is up! (I edit them.) It's: "The ‘Mostly Straight’ Woman Jumping From One Male Lover’s Bed to Another’s."

Official info on how to submit yourself as a diarist (or pass it on to your friends).

Would you like to take part in the glorious tradition that is the New York Magazine sex diaries? Just send an e-mail to sexdiaries@nymag.com with your contact information and why you think you'd make a good diarist. If you've got what it takes, we'll be in touch!

Sex Diary: "The 52-Year-Old Birthday Girl Flirting With Hot Young Lesbians"

Please check out this week's sex diary: "The 52-Year-Old Birthday Girl Flirting With Hot Young Lesbians". And if you're so inclined, I'd love it if you liked it on Facebook and passed it on and/or let me know at sexdiaries at nymag.com if you know of a New Yorker or are a New Yorker who'd want to write a weeklong anonymous sex diary. Thank you!

Did Anthony Weiner cheat? Sex diarists respond

Check out this sex diarist "Did Weiner cheat?" roundup - the answers are pretty mixed, with various rationales and more debate in the comments.

Sex Diary: "The Sorority Girl With Breast Implants Making the Most of Her Open Relationship"

This week's sex diarist is getting a lot of action. Check out: "The Sorority Girl With Breast Implants Making the Most of Her Open Relationship" - there's a lot going on in this one, enjoy! And see the end of the diary if you're a New Yorker who wants to write an anonymous weeklong sex diary (or know someone who might).

Sex Diary: "The Guy Battling a Sunburn and His Girlfriend's HPV"

This week's Sex Diary at Daily Intel (part of nymag.com). I'm the editor on these - see the bottom of the diary for how to become a diarist. We're always looking for New Yorkers with interesting sex lives who want to share their anonymous sexcapades. Thanks for reading!

The Guy Battling a Sunburn and His Girlfriend's HPV

The Female Student Discovering the Thrill of Ex Sex

This week's Sex Diary features "The Female Student Discovering the Thrill of Ex Sex." Ah, sex...as always, if you are or know a New Yorker who'd have good sex stories to anonymously share (and get paid), have them email sexdiaries at nymag.com with their info.

Sex diary: "The Divorced Doctor on Hormones"

This sex diary was a bit different and really interesting - there are medical things and sex things and exes and period sex and Starbucks. Check it out: "The Divorced Doctor on Hormones".

Sex Diary: "The Brazilian Au Pair Enjoying Nameless Men and Her First Multiple Orgasm"

This week's sex diary at Daily Intel is a lively one: "The Brazilian Au Pair Enjoying Nameless Men and Her First Multiple Orgasm" - to pique your interest, here are her totals (the diarists write these themselves in most cases):

TOTALS: Ten orgasms, four free sushi meals, three acts of oral sex (received), three acts of fingering (received), one session of self-indulgence, three guys with no names, one sexting session, and one multiorgasmic experience.

Do read what preceded that!

If you like it, do me a favor and like it on Facebook? And/or tell your NYC friends who want to be anonymous exhibitionists to email about writing their own diaries (it pays):

Would you like to take part in the glorious tradition that is the New York Magazine sex diaries? Just send an e-mail to sexdiaries@nymag.com with your contact information and why you think you'd make a good diarist. If you've got what it takes, we'll be in touch!

This week I learned what an "orgasmism" is

And you can too, by reading this week's Sex Diary, "The Single Girl Supplementing Her Sex Life by Having ‘Orgasmisms’ at Work" - and if you'd be so kind, if you enjoy it, please like it on Facebook. Thanks! Details at the bottom on how to submit your own (must be over 18 and in the NYC area, and it pays).

Sex Diary: "The Polyamorous Transman Getting It On to the Glee Soundtrack"

For the Glee fans. And everyone else. This week's sex diary (I edit these) - scroll down to the bottom if you're a New Yorker who wants to submit a sex diary, and please tell your friends, it does pay.

"The Polyamorous Transman Getting It On to the Glee Soundtrack"

Sex diary: The Female First-Time Fistee

This week's sex diary at Daily Intel features an almost date rape (disturbing) and a first-time fisting between a man and a woman. The Female First-Time Fistee.

And if you enjoyed it, I'd love it if you'd like it on Facebook. You can check out prior sex diaries here.

If you’re a New Yorker who’s over 18 and would like to be considered to write a Sex Diary (yes, it pays), email sexdiaries at nymag.com and let us know what types of sex your diary would entail. And please do pass this on to anyone who wants to be an anonymous literary exhibitionist. Thanks!

Sex diary: "The Single Guy Juggling Five Girls in One Week"

This week's sex diary at Daily Intel: The Single Guy Juggling Five Girls in One Week. And scroll down to find out how you New Yorkers can submit your own sex diary (and get paid for it!). And don't miss the always-lively comments section.

Sex diary of the week

This week's sex diary is already prompting lots of comments of the "Why would you date someone who doesn't like your friends?" ilk. Check it all out in "The Female Museum Greeter Whose Boyfriend Is Making Up for Lackluster Sex" at Daily Intel.

What's it like to date and sleep with a cross-dresser?

Read this week's Daily Intel sex diary: "The Female Editor Teaching Her Cross-Dressing Boyfriend a Lesson" - as always, check the comments section for a spirited discussion, in this case about things like whether the term "jerk off" can be applied to women, men in panties, and more.

Daily Intel wants your Valentine's Day sex diary

From anywhere in the world, no less, and just one day. Why not go for it? Via Daily Intel (yes, where I edit the weekly sex diaries, but this is Daily Intel's project, I'm just passing it on).

Every Monday here at Daily Intel, we publish a sex diary. But this coming Monday is special: It's Valentine's Day, the day of love and romance (also sadness and masturbation). To honor that occasion, we are going to try something new: Everyone is invited to do a one-day sex diary for Monday, February 14. Make a note of every time you have sex, think about sex, simulate sex, or even reject sex from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep. Then on Tuesday morning before noon, send your day's diary to sexdiaries[at]nymag.com. Since we'll be dealing with a bunch of diaries and won't have time to check them out the way we do with the regular diaries, this will be on the honor system. But we trust you guys! For some reason! Also please note: Unlike our usual sex diaries, this is not limited to those of you in the New York region. So Californians! Canadians! Our one reader Mat Mat from Kuala Lumpur! Now's your chance to allow us to peep behind your closed doors...

Sex Diary: "The Finance Guy With a Girl (or Two) Every Night"

This week's Sex Diary at Daily Intel features "The Finance Guy With a Girl (or Two) Every Night" and has caused lots of debate in the comments - was it too straight-up about the sex, or should there be more introspection? In my personal opinion, I think if there was too much introspection, people would be like, "There's not enough sex." But I like the lively commentary.

If you're a New Yorker and are interested in writing a sex diary, click above and send your details to that address and I'll get back to you ASAP.

"The Married Bisexual Porn Lover Trying to Keep Himself From Straying Again"

That's the title of this week's sex diary over at Daily Intel, which I hope you will check out, including its lively comments section (265 as of now). There are details there about how to submit yourself for consideration for a sex diary. Please do click and, if you're so inclined, I'd love it if you passed it on and/or liked it on Facebook. Thank you!