Showing posts with label Sports Figures. Show all posts
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Ben Cohen surfing to Rise to its LGBT Responsibility


Ben Cohen
Ben Cohen, who recently announced his retirement from rugby, has flown to the US to campaign against homophobia: 'Cohen is one of a growing number of straight athletes who are willing to open a dialogue about homosexuality in the most mainstream of sports.' Photograph: David Rogers/Getty Images
Recently, UK rugby star Ben Cohen said that it was important that professional athletes, if they are going to announce they are gay, do so at the top of their game. Cohen has stepped away from a successful, 15-year rugby career to dedicate his time and effort to an anti-bullying organisation that focuses on allying with LGBT youth to prevent that community's "increased risk for suicidal thoughts and behaviours, suicide attempts and suicide".
Cohen is one of a growing number of straight athletes who are willing to open a dialogue about homosexuality in the most mainstream of sports.Michael StrahanSean Avery and Steve Nash and Charles Barkley have also lent their voices to LGBT issues in society and in sport.
Along with education, family, one's peer group and media, sports are a fundamental means by which young people are influenced and shaped. Role models in sport willing to speak up about LGBT issues, along with sports organisations being willing to crack down on anti-gay slurs, help young people realise that sexuality ought not to have a hierarchy of value in today's society. Likewise, attitudes and leadership in mainstream sports influence fringe sports, such as surfing, which are working to improve their marketability and visibility.Search 
Surfing has been demonised by some – heralded by others – as an anti-establishment, anti-work ethic, counter-culture lifestyle of notorious loners, losers, con-artists and dropouts. Oddly, though, within this culture of deviants, those who deviate from the surf norm are largely shunned or ignored. Lewis Samuels, a senior writer for Surfer Magazineknown for pushing the boundaries of surf journalism, observes:
"Surfing has always been known as a counter-culture sport, but there's a tension between the freedom surfers experience in the water and the close-minded thinking they encounter when trying to fit in to surf culture. As a social group, surfers are quite hesitant to deviate from their norm – lest they be perceived as uncool. It's still not 'cool' to be a gay surfer.
"The surf community's intolerance has made many LGBT surfers feel ashamed of who they are. As a journalist, I've interviewed many professional surfers who have felt obliged to keep their sexuality secret in order to keep their sponsors and have a career."
Noting this intolerance and lack of representation, Thomas Green founded GaySurfers.net, the first online community for surfers "who happen to be gay", in February 2010. The site is growing rapidly and has taken on the task of building an international community, where previously only isolated and invisible pods of gay surfers existed. GS'sintended goal is to bring gay surfers together and improve public awareness, both in the specific context of the international surfing community and the broader context of society at large.
In a risk-taking enterprise, such as sport, it is often difficult to imagine that there are riskier and more courageous moves than tackling a massive, growling opponent, or pushing through a defence of six-foot-plus human trees to slam dunk, or chasing after a 60ft wave with only fibreglass to float you. It is important that professional athletes come out at the top of their game, as Cohen said; and for those who are not gay, to shun the hateful epithets that demean others, while standing with their fellow LGBT athletes. These actions to promote understanding, tolerance and compassion are sorely needed at this moment in the history of gay rights – and they do carry risk and take courage. Samuels adds:
"Until prominent surfers are willing to speak openly about their experiences, and the surf media is willing to publish those articles, not much is going to change. As surfers, I believe we can do better – and the first step is taking stock of where we are today."
With the visibility brought by a growing gay surfing community, it is only a matter of time before the larger surf community – and the pros who feel compelled to keep silent – come to terms with LGBT presence in the surfing world. Then, perhaps, we can all speak through the deafening silence that has marked that presence until now.

Michael Lahoud of Chivas USA soccer is for Equality


Lahoud’s Chivas USA team in Los Angeles hosted Equality Night  this past saturday.
Earlier this month Michael Lahoud became one of the rare professional athletes to step foot in front of the NOH8 cameras to take a stand against homophobia. For the Chivas USA midfielder, it was the opportunity to express a position dear to his heart.
“I very much believe in equality on all fronts,” Lahoud said. “It’s as simple as that. Equality is a value we take half-heartedly at times. It felt right to stand up for an issue that is in front of lawmakers.”
Born in Sierra Leone, Lahoud grew up in Virginia and attended Wake Forest University in North Carolina. These are not the most gay-friendly places in the world; Homosexual acts in Sierra Leone come with a penalty of life imprisonment. Lahoud said his inclusive perspective came from his mother, but also in part from a gay man who has been influential in his life, but whom Lahoud would not name.
“He helped me out when I was going through a pretty tough time,” Lahoud said. “Just a normal guy like the rest of us. I think that strengthened my outlook that whather you’re gay or straight, you’re still a person.”
Lahoud said he first considered the idea of a gay teammate reading the story of Brandon Stoneham on Outsports; Before then it was simply an issue he didn’t give much thought to. He’s not sure how a gay player would be accepted by his teammates on Chivas USA, though he says there are a lot of “accepting guys” on the team.
Still, he’s crystal clear on where he would stand if a teammate of his came out.
“That’s bravery right there,” Lahoud said. “It’s the essence of bravery. We talk about having courage as an athlete, to have bigger courage to tell people something that isn’t widely accepted in the world, I admire people who are brave.
“It’s crazy sometimes because I’m a straight guy but the biggest thing for me is that, regardless of whether you’re gay or straight, you need to look at people as people. Being gay doesn’t make a guy different from a straight guy. Not everyone lives up to stereotypes. Just accept people for who they are. As corny as it sounds, the more we do that on a day to day basis, it really does make the world a better place.”http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog

The Padres are first pro team to sign GLSEN’s Team Respect Challenge





GLSEN’S Sports Project, which launched earlier this year, got some amazing news when their San Diego chapter announced the San Diego Padres have signed the group’s Team Respect Challenge. In the pledge, created by project director Pat Griffin, the team promises to avoid slurs, remind teammates who use bullying language that it’s “not ok,” and treat all teammates with respect, among other items. You can read the full pledge here. GLSEN executive director Eliza Byard said:
As baseball comes back from the break, the San Diego Padres have made it clear who the real all-stars are by signing on to GLSEN’s Team Respect Challenge. From the pros to the playgrounds, far too many athletes seem to think that disrespectful language and behavior are just part of the game. The Padres have sent a clear message to youth everywhere: Name-calling and harassment of any kind is not acceptable and teams perform best when every teammate is safe and respected.
I’m on the group’s advisory board, and this is fantastic news. Pro sports teams are taking various angles to get a message of tolerance across to their fans — making ‘It Gets Better’ videos, doing NOH8 photo shoots — and this adds to the multitude of ways they can commit to tolerance. Good for GLSEN, and good for the Padres!

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